Anger and aggression
If he has trouble keeping it in check, he’s irrational, violent, and a bit too handy with his fists, be careful that you don’t end up being a human punchbag or being emotionally abused. In relationships with lots of drama, if the only way that you both seem to ‘communicate’ or extract a reaction is to argue and fight, this is a serious signal that you are both engaging unhealthily. Abort mission or at the very least seek professional help for anger management!
Dodgy attitude towards sex
Pay attention to guys who don’t know what to do with themselves if they don’t get their ‘medicine’. Some of these will never be satisfied. Also unhealthy attitudes in the bedroom do spill over into other areas of your life and will leave you feeling very insecure. In relationships with lots of drama, this is not drama in a role play kinky sex moment - drama will be created when you try to get him to change his attitude and he is unreceptive. Drama seeking can also happen when you are sexually frustrated because you feel like your needs are not being met and you are also unheard. There’s many a woman who will put up with this rather than leave, but remember that if you stay, it’s now your choice.
They play victim
Be careful of anybody that refuses to take any responsibility for their life and blames it on others. You will eventually become one of those ‘others’. People who play the victim and refuse to see their own part to play in things make dubious partners. In a drama filled relationship, even when you are actually the victim of their mistreatment, they invalidate that right by claiming their victim status. Be careful though…drama filled relationships sometimes have two people playing the victim - better for you to shed the victim status and get strong…and get out of the relationship.
- Current Mood: aggravated
I just bought the cutest Steve Madden shoes above, called Bombb. However, I'm not sure what to wear with it. It's really cute and super sexy on, but alas! I can't think of an outfit it will go with.
- Current Mood: annoyed
Thanks for the memories. I'm done.
- Current Mood: bitchy
Not eating dinner when you know you're going out for drinks is just plain stupid!
It's my Friday rant from my happy hour Thursday with co workers.
Good thing I left before I totally lost all my respect for this particular person.
- Current Mood: bitchy
Life is short and sometimes it's a bastard.. then you realize you're better off.
Live like tomorrow won't come, Love with all your heart like it won't be broken and Learn from whatever comes at you for it will only make you stronger.
- Current Mood: cheerful
I'm looking forward to watching the Curious Case of Benjamin Button!
I wouldn't want to go see Seven Pounds or The Day the Earth Stood Still.